"Close the door. Write with no one looking over your shoulder. Don't try to figure out what other people want to hear from you; figure out what you have to say. It's the one and only thing you have to offer. "
Barbara Kingsolver

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

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Death and Impermanence


Death is inevitable, it occurs to all, one or the other way. No one can escape death; everyone will have to pass through it. And one should always be aware and prepared to face it.

It is always reminded to us in everything we do, for example, if we twist our ankle and fall, this is telling us to remind our self of death, a sign showing that death can happen in anyways.

Sufferings are caused by desires, attachments, ill thinking, etc. So one should try to avoid all these things with time so that at the time of departing from one’s body only the positive environment will float rather than negative.

It is hard but one can overcome it, it will take a lot of time indeed but one should have patience, path to nirvana is always not so easy. One should suffer but can succeed.

Actually if we think deeply, everything is just temporary, tong pa ne, even our body. At the time of death, we have to leave our body behind.  Nothing remains till the end. Impermanence is what that is called.

So get reminded of our self about death and impermanence always, everyday and feel the difference in oneself, that changing attitude of oneself. It feels great.
All The Best!

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Mother.

Waiting for your call, and as if you know am missing you, my phone rings out with the song “Dear Mom” by S.N.S.D with your name which brings a smile that is unusual, the every time I think of you.

Hearing your voice...lovely and soft, makes me feel like am near you, listening to you, though less because I talk more, it is kind a relaxing, thank you mother.

Remembering those wonderful days, going out for a drive, chatting for hours, teasing one another, cooking, drinking together...makes me happy and smile all the time, thanks to you.

Thank you for all the love, care and everything.

I admire you, a single mother who raised three children all by herself, taking responsibility of both father and a mother, without letting us feel the absence of our father .

We adore you, you are such a wonderful lady with a soft heart, thank you for letting us have what we ever wanted and full filling our desires.

I have never seen a courageous woman like you, it’s just so amazing to have a mother like you.

You are amazing and I am very lucky to be born as your daughter...am proud of you mom, am really proud of you...hats off to you.

And today also while I was remembering you, writing this, my phone just rang with your name and this is really awesome...the most wonderful feeling ever, I love you mom.


Happy Mother's Day.